Frequently Asked Questions
General FAQs About Sex Coaching
What is a Sex Coach?
A sex coach provides a safe, judgment-free space to discuss topics like:
Enhancing intimacy and connection in relationships
Overcoming sexual difficulties (e.g., low desire, performance anxiety)
Exploring desires, fantasies, and boundaries
Understanding anatomy and pleasure techniques
Healing from past negative sexual experiences
Building confidence in one’s sexual identity and expression
They focus on communication, mindset, and sexual well-being rather than medical treatment or therapy.
Is sex coaching the same as sex therapy?
Sex coaching is action-oriented, focusing on education, strategies, and practical solutions to improve your sex life. It helps clients set goals and take steps toward sexual fulfilment.
Sex therapy, on the other hand, deals with deeper emotional or psychological issues like trauma, sexual dysfunction, or mental health challenges that impact sexuality. Therapists are typically licensed mental health professionals, while sex coaches may have specialised training but do not diagnose or treat mental disorders.
In summary:
Sex coaches focus on education, skills, and confidence-building, working with clients to improve their sex lives through practical techniques.
Sex therapists address deeper psychological issues, past trauma, and medical concerns related to sexuality.How will this process work?
I do not live in the UK, can we still work together?
Yes! I work 100% remotely, meaning wherever you are in the world I am here to support you.
What sex coaching and education services do you offer?
1:1 sex coaching
1:1 online coaching via email and WhatsApp
Sex Toy Consultation
Sex Education Session
90-minute Power Session
Are all sessions confidential?
Yes! Your privacy is a top priority. Everything discussed in our session is kept completely confidential so you can feel safe and supported.
I am part of the LGBTQIA+, Kink, BDSM, Sex Worker and Poly community, can we work together?
Absolutely, we can work together! I embrace and celebrate diversity within the LGBTQIA+, kink, BDSM, sex worker, and poly communities. My goal is to create an inclusive and supportive space for all individuals, regardless of their background or identity. Whether you’re seeking guidance, resources, or a collaborative partnership, I am here to provide tailored support that respects and uplifts your unique experiences.
Is sex coaching suitable for people who are asexual or on the ace spectrum?
Absolutely. Sex coaching isn’t just about having more sex, it’s about feeling connected, informed, and confident in your choices. If you identify as asexual or on the spectrum, we can work together to explore what intimacy, connection, and identity mean to you.
I can’t afford to work with you right now, do you have any suggestions of ways we can work together?
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If you are unable to afford 1:1 coaching, I offer 1:1 online coaching by email and WhatsApp which is cheaper
You can also book a one-off Sex Toy Consultation or Sex Education Session if you are unable to commit to 1:1 coaching
Will I have to discuss my personal sex life?
Only as much as you feel comfortable with. This is a judgment-free space where you can openly talk about concerns, desires, and goals at your own pace.
Do you work with clients from religious backgrounds?
Yes. I provide a respectful, non-judgmental space for individuals from all backgrounds, including those navigating sexual concerns within the context of their faith or cultural beliefs. However, I would like to note I am no religious.
Do sex coaching sessions involve nudity or physical contact?
No. Coaching sessions are conversation-based and focus on education, techniques, and exercises you can practice on your own or with a partner. There is no physical contact between the coach and client.
What makes you qualified?
Okay, let’s cut to the chase to what you really want to know, what makes me qualified to be a sex coach?
I am an Accredited Sex and Relationship Educator
Clinical Sexologist & Certified Sex Coach
I have worked with over 60+ sex-positive businesses & individuals through my sex positive virtual assistant agency.
7+ years of experience in the sexual wellness and women’s rights sector, including work, volunteering, and research, reflecting a commitment to advocacy and empowerment.
I have a BA (Hons) in Sociology (Specialised in topics such as gender, sexuality, sex, pornography, sex work, feminism, and sexism.)
Sextech Entrepreneurship Program Graduate
Completed a Psychology of Fetish & Kink Introduction 7-Week course
Completed a 2-day intensive Sexual Attitude Reassessment (SAR) course
I hold a Level 3 GDPR qualification, demonstrating strong knowledge of data protection and privacy standards.
I have a Level 7 (PGCE) Postgraduate Certificate of Education in Primary Teaching and Learning, showcasing advanced expertise in education.
How much will this cost me?
I have different rates for different types of sessions and services. Take a closer look here!
How old do I need to be to work with you?
You would need to be 21+. If you look younger than 21 I will require ID as proof of age, this will not be stored anywhere.
I am 21+ but still a student, can I get a student discount?
Yes, please email me your student ID as evidence and you will get 20% off.
How do I know if you are the sex coach for me?
If you are looking for a coach who is sex-positive, pro-choice, kink-friendly, real, supportive and makes talking about sex feel fun, we will be a good fit. I create a space where you can be yourself without pressure or judgement. If reading this feels reassuring or sparks something inside you, trust that feeling, it is usually a good place to start. You can book a free 20 minute discovery call with me here to find out if we are match.
What can you help me with?
Common topics include:
Enhancing sexual confidence and pleasure
Overcoming shame or anxiety about sex
Learning new techniques and communication skills
Exploring desires, fantasies, or alternative lifestyles (BDSM, polyamory, tantra, etc.)
Navigating changes in libido and sexual compatibility
If you have a penis or are a man;
Low or no sexual desire
Early ejaculation
Erectile dysfunction
Delayed ejaculation
Sexual inhibition
Body confidence issues
Social/dating skills deficit
Desire for enhanced pleasure (EP)
Navigating kinks and fetishes
If you have a vulva or are a women;
Low or no sexual desire
Preorgasmic primary
Preorgasmic secondary
Dyspareunia (painful sex)
Vaginismus
Sexual inhibitions
Body confidence issues
Social/dating skills deficit
Desire for enhanced pleasure (EP)
Navigating kinks and fetishes
How do I know if I need a Sex Coach?
If you’re curious about improving your sex life, deepening intimacy, or gaining confidence, a consultation with a coach can help determine if it’s the right fit for you.
Is sex coaching only for people with problems?
Not at all! Many people seek sex coaching to enhance their already good sex life, explore new experiences, or gain more confidence in relationships.
Is sex coaching suitable for people with disabilities or chronic illness?
Absolutely. My approach is inclusive and we can explore pleasure in ways that honour your body, your needs, and your capacity. Everyone deserves access to pleasure and connection.
I’m new to kink/BDSM and feel unsure, can we talk about that?
Definitely. This is a kink-aware, shame-free space. We can explore your interests, safety practices (like consent and communication), and ways to begin experimenting that feel aligned with your values and boundaries.
FAQs specific to Sex Coaching Sessions
What is sex coaching?
Sex coaching is a professional service that helps individuals and couples improve their sexual well-being, confidence, and intimacy. It combines elements of education, guidance, and coaching techniques to address concerns related to sexuality, relationships, and personal pleasure.
What can you help me with?
I can help anyone looking to improve their sexual experiences, confidence, or communication with a partner can benefit. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or exploring alternative lifestyles, sex coaching can provide guidance tailored to your needs.
How much do virtual sex coaching sessions cost?
£100 per session (1 hour)
£90 per session if you buy in bulk (3+ sessions)
This includes support in between sessions via Email
WhatsApp and Email Sex Coaching FAQs
How does WhatsApp & Email sex coaching work?
This is a text-based coaching service where you can reach out via WhatsApp or email for guidance, advice, and support. You can send questions, share challenges, and receive expert responses, exercises, and strategies, all at your own pace, without the need for scheduled calls or sessions.
What’s the difference between WhatsApp and Email coaching?
📲 WhatsApp Coaching – Best for quick check-ins, voice notes, and real-time support when you need guidance on the go.
📧 Email Coaching – Best for more in-depth coaching, detailed responses, and structured guidance.
How long does WhatsApp and Email coaching last?
You can sign up for this on a monthly basis. I offer one-month, two-month and three-month coaching over WhatsApp and Email.
Can I message you anytime?
You can message at any time, and I’ll respond within my coaching hours (which will be clearly outlined when you sign up). This ensures you get timely and thoughtful responses while maintaining a healthy coaching flow.
How much does WhatsApp and Email Sex Coaching cost?
Sure, it depends on how long you want the support to last!
£250 for one month
£450 for two months
£650 for 3 months
How long are sex coaching sessions?
Sessions are 1 hour long.
How many sessions will I need?
It depends on your goals. Some people find a few sessions helpful, while others prefer ongoing coaching for continued growth and exploration. On average you would usually require at least 10 sex coaching sessions.
Can I do both WhatsApp and Email coaching at the same time?
Yes! I can offer WhatsApp AND email support at the same time.
How long does sex coaching last?
You can sign up for weekly or monthly coaching, depending on your needs. There’s no long-term commitment, you can continue for as long as it benefits you!
How long will it take you to reply?
Within 12 hours, no longer than 36 hours,
What days and hours will you reply?
Monday - Friday 11am - 6pm (UK Time), for abroad clients I can be flexible.
Is there a limit to how many messages I can send?
To keep things balanced and productive, coaching works within fair-use guidelines. You can message as often as needed, and I’ll respond with thoughtful, helpful, and actionable feedback—without back-and-forth small talk that can slow progress.
If a topic needs deeper discussion, I may suggest summarizing thoughts via email or structuring responses for clarity.
I am ready to work with you, what are the next steps?
You can book a discovery call with me here.
Sex Education Consultation Session FAQs
What happens in a Sex Education Consultation?
This is a private, one-on-one session where you can ask any questions about sexual health, relationships, pleasure, anatomy, and more. You'll get clear, accurate, and non-judgmental information tailored to your needs.
Are sex education consultation sessions like therapy?
No, this is education-focused coaching, not therapy. I provide factual, practical, and empowering sex education, but if deeper emotional healing is needed, I may recommend a therapist.
Can you help me learn how to talk to my kids about sex?
Yes! If you're a parent, guardian, or educator, I can guide you on how to discuss sex, bodies, and relationships with kids and teens in an age-appropriate, open, and shame-free way.
How long is a consultation?
A consultation is an hour long, if you require more support or advice, you can book another session.
How much is a session?
£80 per session (1 hour)
Plus 7 days support via email after intial call
I never received proper sex education. Is this consultation session for me?
Absolutely! If your past sex ed was lacking (or non-existent), this is your chance to get the knowledge you deserve in a safe and welcoming space. Even if you feel like you had good sex education in school, this consultation session will bring you up to speed with sex education in today’s modern world.
Sex Toy Consultation Session FAQs
What gender do I have to be to book a sex toy consultation?
You don’t need to be any specific gender for a sex toy consultation! My services are open to everyone, regardless of gender, orientation, or experience level. The goal of the consultation is to help you find products that align with your unique needs and preferences, no matter who you are. Everyone deserves a comfortable, safe space to explore their questions and options, and I'm here to provide just that!
Do I need to know what type of toy I’m looking for before a sex toy consultation?
Not at all! Many people come to a consultation with just a bit of curiosity or a few questions. My role is to help you explore different options, so there’s no need to know exactly what you’re looking for. Together, we’ll uncover what works best for your comfort, pleasure, and lifestyle.
I’ve never used a sex toy before. Is a sex toy consultation for me?
Absolutely! Many clients are exploring sex toys for the first time. I’ll provide gentle guidance, explain how different toys work, and offer recommendations that align with your comfort level and interests. There’s no pressure to buy anything, my goal is to give you information and confidence to make decisions that feel right for you.
How much will this cost me and how do I pay?
£80 per session (1 hour)
Plus 7 days support via email after initial call.
Plus, however much your brand new toy will be if you get one ;)
Is a sex toy consultation for single people only?
Not at all! I offer consultations for both individuals and couples. Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, a consultation can help you discover ways to enhance intimacy and pleasure. Couples consultations can be a fun, informative experience that introduces new ideas and helps partners connect on a deeper level.
How does a virtual sex toy consultation work?
A virtual consultation works much like an in-person one but is conducted via a secure video call. During the session, we’ll discuss your needs and interests, and I’ll recommend products based on what we discuss. It’s convenient, confidential, and allows you to explore from the comfort of your own home. Plus, I’ll provide follow-up notes and recommendations for easy reference.
Can you help me with products I already own?
Yes! If you have questions about products you already own – whether it’s about using them, cleaning them, or finding ways to enhance the experience – I can definitely help. Sometimes, a few tips or small adjustments can make a big difference in your enjoyment.
I have more questions …
Contact me here and ask away!
Breakthrough Sessions FAQs
What happens in a Sexual Breakthrough Session?
This is a private, one-time coaching session where we discuss your concerns, challenges, and goals related to your sex life. You’ll receive personalised guidance, practical tools, and actionable strategies to help you move forward with more confidence and pleasure.
How long are the breakthrough sessions?
90 mins.
Are breakthrough sessions only for people with sexual problems?
Not at all! While many people seek help for challenges like low desire, anxiety, or confidence issues, others join the session to enhance pleasure, explore new desires, or deepen their intimacy. This session is for anyone who wants to improve their sex life in a judgment-free, empowering space.
How much is the breakthrough session?
£150 plus a tailor-made plan for you.
In addition, 7 days of support via email after the call.
I am ready to work with you what are the next steps?
Click here to book a session. You will be asked to pay whilst you are booking your session.
Are breakthrough sessions only for individuals, or can couples book it too?
Both individuals and couples are welcome! If you’re in a relationship and want to improve communication, intimacy, or sexual connection with your partner, this session can help you work through blocks and enhance pleasure together.
Are these sessions in person or online?
Online via zoom
How do I know if this type of session is right for me?
This session is for you if you want to:
✔ Overcome anxiety, fear, or blocks related to sex
✔ Improve desire, pleasure, or intimacy
✔ Learn practical techniques to enhance your sex life
✔ Gain confidence in dating, relationships, or communication
✔ Explore new desires or navigate kinks in a safe, informed way
What if I want more sessions after this?
That’s totally up to you! This is designed as a one-time breakthrough session, but if you feel you’d benefit from additional coaching, we can discuss options for follow-up support. There’s no pressure, just an open invitation for continued growth if you choose.