Resources
Welcome to my collection of downloadable sex guides! Each guide has been thoughtfully crafted to empower you with the knowledge, tools, and inspiration you need to navigate intimacy, sexual communication, and self-discovery.
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Sex Guides for Everyone
In my guide, All About Sex Toys, I walk you through why people use sex toys and introduce you to a wide range of popular options.
Together, we’ll explore everything from the classic vibrator and iconic rabbit vibrator to dildos of all kinds, including realistic and glass varieties.
I’ll also cover anal beads, butt plugs, and P-spot massagers for those curious about anal play, along with cock rings and couples' vibrators that can enhance shared experiences.
Plus, you’ll find insights on unique items like suction toys and penis pumps.
This guide is designed to be a judgment-free, informative resource for both beginners and experienced users alike!
Using condoms doesn’t have to be awkward or complicated! Whether you’re new to using them or just need a quick refresher, I’ve created this easy-to-follow guide to help you feel confident about putting on a condom the right way and using it safely and effectively every time.
Inside, you’ll find:
Why condoms matter and how they protect against STIs.
The different types of condoms available to suit your needs.
Step-by-step instructions on how to properly put a condom on to ensure proper use every time.
Tips, storage advice, and trusted resources for extra support.
As a qualified sex and relationship educator with years of experience in sexual wellness, I’m here to make sexual health approachable, empowering, and even a little fun.
Download the guide today and take charge of your sexual health with confidence!
Ever wondered why your sex drive isn’t always consistent? Or why some days you feel ready to go while other days you are just not in the mood?
This is actually something a lot of men (and people with a penis) and women (and people with a vulva) experience; your libido is influenced by so many factors, and it goes beyond just being attracted to someone!
This guide is here to help you understand:
✨ What libido really Is - It’s not just about wanting intimacy; it’s a mix of physical, emotional, and mental responses influenced by your hormones, health, and lifestyle.
💡 The difference between desire and attraction - I break down why these aren’t the same thing.
🔄 Hormones & libido - From oestrogen to testosterone, your hormone levels affect your drive. Plus, I explain how your menstrual cycle, menopause, birth control, and how conditions like PCOS play a role.
This guide also explores the different signs and causes of low libido:
💭 Emotions - Stress, anxiety, and past experiences can impact how you feel.
❤️ Relationships - Connection, communication, and trust matter!
🩺 Medical & Physical Health - Hormonal imbalances, pain conditions, chronic illness, and medications all have an effect on your drive.
🏃♀️ Lifestyle Factors - Sleep, diet, movement, and self-care routines make a big difference.
Beyond looking at causes of low libido in women, I also discuss the different things you can do to increase it. This includes mind-body exercises for stress relief, movement, and treatments – we’ll dive into practical, real-world strategies to help you reconnect with your body.
Understanding how your drive works on a personal level is really important. Take this time to do some inner work and try to get in tune with your body. This guide is your first step to feeling empowered and informed.
Curious about impact play? What does it actually mean? Whether the goal is to spice things up in the bedroom or explore a deeper BDSM dynamic, understanding the fundamentals is key. But where to start? How to do it safely? And what’s the difference between a thuddy and a stingy sensation?!
That’s exactly why Impact Play 101 was created: a detailed guide covering everything needed to confidently explore impact play in a way that’s safe, informed, and, most importantly, pleasurable.
What’s Inside?
✅ A breakdown of why people engage in impact play and how it works.
✅ Clear explanations of thuddy vs. stingy impact and the best spots on the body for each sensation.
✅ Learning about RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) & the Traffic Light Safeword System to ensure safety.
✅ A comprehensive guide to different impact toys (floggers, paddles, canes & more!) and their effects.
✅ A curated list of high-quality impact gear vendors – no need to waste time searching!
✅ Detailed insights on Impact Play Safety Zones: where to hit, where to avoid, and which areas induce varying levels of pain. In BDSM, pain can be part of pleasure.
✅ A thorough explanation of aftercare, covering both the physical and emotional aspects, as well as the physiological and emotional changes that can occur post-session.
✅ Legal Considerations! Essential information on BDSM & UK law to ensure safe and informed play (please note I am not a lawyer, and you need to do your own legal research or seek legal counsel where necessary).
This isn’t just a quick beginner’s guide; it’s a comprehensive resource for anyone looking to play with confidence, enhance skills, and explore impact play in a way that feels fun, fulfilling, and safe.
Created by an accredited sex & relationship educator, clinical sexologist, and certified sex coach, this guide is packed with evidence-based insights, real-world experience, and practical advice, making exploration feel both exciting and secure.
Download your copy now!
Understanding the influence of porn on your views of sex and intimacy is essential! In this insightful guide, expert sex coaches Marie Morice and Amari Leigh dive into how porn often misrepresents sex, helping you:
🔍 Uncover common myths and inaccuracies in porn’s portrayal of intimacy.
🌿 Recognise key differences between porn and real-life sexual experiences.
💬 Gain tools to foster healthier, more genuine connections.
⚖️ Develop strategies for mindful and responsible porn consumption.
🎭 Learn to balance fantasy with real-life expectations for authentic relationships.
Discover the incredible variety of orgasms your body can experience in this easy-to-read guide! From clitoral and G-spot to nipple, mental, and beyond, I break down over 40 different types of orgasms that you can have no matter what your gender identity is – male, female, non-binary, transgender, etc. – to help you better understand and explore your body’s potential for pleasure. Who knew the world of orgasms could be so broad?
This guide covers:
What is an orgasm?
Different types of orgasms – what they are, how they feel and their intensity.
Pro tips and fun facts!
Download the free guide today and explore the possibilities!
Elevate your intimate experiences with our 69 Things to Try in the Bedroom Checklist! This comprehensive guide is designed to inspire exploration, creativity, and fun in your sexual relationships, encouraging you and your partner to step outside your comfort zones and discover new pleasures together (or by yourself!).
From playful activities and positions to innovative techniques and sensual experiences, this checklist covers a diverse range of ideas suitable for all relationship dynamics. Whether you’re a seasoned couple looking to spice things up or you want to explore by yourself, you’ll find something to ignite your passion and deepen your connection.
Each item on the checklist encourages communication and consent, ensuring that both partners feel comfortable and excited about the experiences. By trying new things, you can foster intimacy, strengthen your bond, and enhance your sexual satisfaction.
Download the 69 Things to Try in the Bedroom Checklist and embark on an exciting journey of discovery and pleasure. Get ready to spice up your bedroom adventures and enjoy the thrill of trying something new together!
Navigating contraceptive options can be extremely difficult, especially if you have no knowledge of what is out there. My "Contraception 101" guide is here to make the process simple, empowering, and yes—fun to learn about all your birth control options!
From long-term solutions like IUDs and implants to everyday methods like oral contraceptive pills, patches, and condoms, this guide breaks it all down in a way that’s easy to understand and totally judgment-free. You’ll get the facts, tips, and pros and cons for each method so you can confidently choose what works best for your body and lifestyle.
Think of this as your ultimate cheat sheet to contraception—practical, straightforward, and designed to help you make informed decisions while keeping things light and approachable!
Discover everything you need to know about lube in this ultimate guide! Whether you’re new to lube or just want to explore your options, this guide covers all the basics—from water-based to warming lubes—and how to choose the best lube for your needs. Perfect for making your sexual experiences smoother, safer, and more enjoyable.
Plus, I’ve teamed up with the amazing folks at SheSpot, where you can shop for high-quality lubes and other sexual wellness products. Use my code AMARI20 for 20% off your order!
Let’s make things smoother—literally. Happy exploring!
Ready to transform your intimate connections? Purchase and enrol now via this link: The Importance of the Clit on Thinkific
Unlock the secrets to the anatomy and how to become an amazing lover with our short course, The Importance of the Clit.
What will you learn?
You will gain a detailed understanding of the clitoris and female anatomy, empowering you with knowledge to enhance pleasure.
Insights into becoming a more attentive and skilled lover.
The science behind different types of orgasms and how they work
Whether you're just starting and asking yourself, “What and where is the clit?” or seeking to expand your knowledge, this course is the perfect blend of education and empowerment.
Who are your authors?
Amari Leigh - Accredited Sex and Relationship Educator, Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach with over 7 years of experience in sexual wellness and women's rights.
Marie Morice - Certified Sex Coach, Certified Life Coach, and Clinical Sexologist dedicated to promoting sexual empowerment and pleasure-focused health worldwide. With 25 years working in sexual and reproductive rights.
Ready to transform your intimate connections? Purchase and enrol now via this link: The Importance of the Clit on Thinkific
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Understanding pleasure is an essential aspect of sexual wellness, and at the heart of this exploration lies the clitoris—a powerful organ that plays a crucial role in sexual pleasure. This section delves into the significance of the clitoris, highlighting its anatomy, function, and the vital role it plays in sexual satisfaction.
The clitoris is often under-represented in discussions about sexual health, yet it contains over 10,000 nerve endings, making it one of the most sensitive areas of the body. Here, we will explore the importance of recognising and celebrating the clitoris as a key source of pleasure for many individuals.
Join me and clinical Sexologist Marie Morice in breaking down the stigma surrounding female pleasure and celebrating the clitoris as a vital component of sexual wellness and empowerment.
Hellooo! Now, what better gift can I give you than your very own Kink Dictionary?! This bad boy has a definition for over 87 kinks and fetishes. I mean, who even knew there were more than 87 kinks in the first place? That’s wild! But hey, there are so many ways to experience pleasure, and this dictionary proves just that.
This isn’t just for people who are completely new to kink; it’s also great for those of us who’ve been around the block and think we’ve seen it all. And if you say you knew every single kink in here? You’re a pro, and honestly, I need lessons from you!
What can you use this for?
Figuring out what you like – Because how can you explore if you don’t know what’s out there?
Starting conversations with partners – A fun way to discuss what you’re into (or curious about).
Play party icebreaker – Whip this out and watch the conversations flow!
Deepening your knowledge – Whether you’re a beginner or experienced, there’s always something new to learn.
As a certified sex educator, clinical sexologist, and certified sex coach with years of experience in sexual wellness and kink education, I created this dictionary to be fun, inclusive, and packed with knowledge to help you explore with confidence.
Honestly, if you live and breathe pleasure, this dictionary needs to be on your phone, ready to go.
Download it now and enjoy!
Love, Amari xx